This is just some musing, serious readers can stop now. I think these biases are bad for investing but good for family life, especially if u want to hitch a wife or girl.
Confirmation bias give you perseverance. Everything she does or not do, you will interpret it as dropping hints, lol. She refuse a date, you think it's playing hard to get. LOL.
Illusion of control bias:
You think you can control her happiness and joy, because you think you are her center of universal and vice-versa.
Hello, if a courtship and/ or marriage is like" I don't what will happen tomorrow, past happiness is not any indication of tomorrow, then super ... zzzz
Of course, I think because I am happy with her today, I would be happily ever after right?
Anchoring irrevalant data gives one hope. She used to be 32 23 32, be after she bears you a son, the numbers can messed up, but you believe those numbers will happen again. That's the right "value"
A marriage or courtship either ends in success or failure. It's binary. But we says we can enjoy the process too.
Wa, if we don't have this bias, then the world super chaotic. You do peer comparison and think wa her sister better !!
Loss aversion Bias.
If we unhappy then cut loss... hmm... think we might be divorcing again and again. In fact, this could be what be keeping a lot of marriage intact.
Hello, of corse la. If not, every time you go to those gatherings, u keep thinking the grass greener on the other side...
Ok. I know. I bo Liao. In conclusion, sometimes being too clear-headed is like having too much vitamin