Life goes in cycles, predictable yet uncontrollable; just like the markets, but markets give you a second chance
Wednesday, December 21, 2022
Thakral, a gem under the rubble?
Tuesday, October 11, 2022
Friday, October 7, 2022
Random thoughts: Thankful for a satisfying day
Yesterday was a great day! I am thankful for it.
For those who read Rolf H2F3 post, it was one of the days where I feel everything is falling in place
We celebrated my wife's birthday. We didn't really celebrate birthdays beyond a meal at home due to Covind. I spent quite some time planning for this. While my wife changed the plan quite a bit to fit her busy tuition schedule, I can see she is visible happy about the meal out, and the surprise gifts we got for her, which are not expensive.
I also meet up with some secondary school friends for a game of volleyball, and I brought my son along. I could not recognise most of my seniors, but I nonetheless had a good 1 hour game. I could not play longer as I need to fetch my wife from work.
What really makes me happy is I used to be very anxious when I played a game with the seniors. This time round, I simply said I would like to play the role of a "setter", even to strangers. There are mistakes made, but it doesn't bother me anymore and I could really enjoy the game as it is. What I have been telling my pupils in my CCA to do, I finally is able to do it myself.
Even my son said he has the best game play ever and would really want to play more.
Although there is not much catching up with friends, I am just contented to have re-connect with my secondary school friends, even if it is just short whatsapp messages.
The time spent thinking and planning for my wife birthday celebration is really worth it. I realise I have spent so much time planning for my pupils' study and I have not put in as much thoughts for my family. Will try to do so more often.
Saturday, October 1, 2022
My portfolio turns RED
Friday, September 9, 2022
Friday, August 19, 2022
Random Thoughts: Fairness
Saturday, August 13, 2022
Random thoughts: Academic and sporting performance
I have faced disappointment in both areas, as a participant and also as a teacher/coach.
We tend to give too much hope to good performance and forget that consistency is the most important.
It is useless to be able to spike, serve well during training and let fear takes over in a match. When we can do very well in some questions, doesn't mean we can answer all similar questions.
In the end, the process of refining how I coach/ teach, becomes more meaningful and motivating than the final results.
My players trained hard but didn't get the results, my pupils were lazy and kept telling me they are stressed and have too much work.
Effort does not gives u results, it however will likely give u progress.
Let hope those who passes me fear no hardship and progess in life.

