1) Because I need to adapt to the surroundings.
2) Because I want to.
Option 1 is not a choice, we adapt to survive or to thrive.
Option 2 is a conscious choice. You need 4 elements, the mind, the heart, the action and time.
Any one is the gate to the other. No need to rush. Keep thinking about it, one day, when your heart awaken to it, you will do it, and with time, you change.
Keep doing it, one day, you will understand why it is worth it. I am talking about option 2, sorry if u keep doing your work because you need to in order to get your pay, doesn't count. Keep doing it and it become a habit.
You don't change overnight.
You can. It's simple but difficult. Don't tell me you can't. There is no goodness in man if we can't.
We have a choice.
Takes time. Dun give up. Keep it in your mind, if you can't act on it. Once u act on it, and you cannot do it wholeheartedly, and you relapse, it's ok.
Takes time. U have a choice. Choice is regardless of circumstances.