Friday, April 5, 2019

随心笔:回家

回家了,终于。
不管好坏,不论结果。

家,就算什么也没有。
就算能做的事,也没差。

我还是希望,
还是开心。

那个药箱,不会再空着了。

你不一样了。
你听不太懂我的话。

你要想一想,才记得我的名。

没关系。这是你的地方。
你安心休息。

你越来越像小孩。
你其实不再是你了。

你好好休息,开心一点。
希望能带你去吃点饭。

15 comments:

  1. sillyinvestor,

    人生就是这样。

    年轻时他来照顾你,

    年老时你来照顾他。



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    1. 以前他们两个同时照顾三个,现在我们三个在不同时间照顾一个。

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  2. Take care.

    Taking care of senior is way more difficult than taking care of children...


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    1. Hi Farmer,

      Children get stronger and stronger, parents get weaker and weaker.

      But lucku my dad has no temper. Easu to give caregiving le

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  3. We all wish for a good life but forget to wish for a good death.

    What's a good death?

    My aunty and eldest brother died in their sleep.

    Is that a good death?

    i think dying because of any terminal disease is no good death.

    It is quiet painful way to die.

    The Cantonese sometimes tell someone to be careful of his last few years in life is usually means as a curse and never an advice.

    So how U want to die?

    Can we choose when our time come?

    Que Sera, Sera?


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    1. Yes, Temp.

      I always remind myself the last few years. Of course I not cursing myself. Like u, it's a reminder to be kind. Or let go ...

      We can't choose. And even a healthy lifestyle is just a matter of choice rather than cause of effect. It's like being prepared...

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  4. If U are prepared, U can do or take anything as it comes.

    Prepare to be as charitable as possible not thinking of anything in return.

    It's your father or mother ma! Even not close, out of duty one must be charitable ma!

    YMMV!

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  5. Like U, i am not close to my mom but closer to my dad.

    In fact my mom dislikes me the most.

    Yet I took the responsibility of rallying my siblings to chip in, doing what they can or trying their best.

    Since I was the mobiliser, anything little to big matters to do with my Mom, came to me first until her last day.

    Naturally I had to bear all things first before they chipped in whatever they could.

    Yet i was happy for doing all that out of duty as i had to do all the running of small or big matters when i couldn' feel close to my Mom.

    i just couldn't guess how she felt then.

    But i heard even before she drawn her last breath, she worried about her favorite son-her 3rd son.
    Whom, she was more than willing to bestow all her best possession on him. While he didn't bother really to do anything for her.

    Such is human behavior - irrational like investing in stock market. Or why i chose to be the mobiliser of my Mom's last few years on Earth out of duty?

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    1. For me, the talking is getting lesser and lesser. I just wish he can be as comfortable as possible. Less itchy. Not so bored. Have some good food.

      My sister take care of the social as well as the physical part more

      But it's fine.

      My dad has been more or less fair. My mum obviously like boys more and perhaps me the best. But I dun feel the connection. The more u want something in returns the worse it get, perhaps?

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  6. 回家就好了。。。
    安康 :)

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