Thursday, April 16, 2015

Random thoughts: The gap

I want to solve the problem for her; she thinks I am not listening.

I want her to see another point of view; she thinks I am lecturing 

She wants to connect with me; I keep thinking what's her point 

How many quarrels, how many unhappiness before we find a bridge?

She wants to let off steam; I think she is whinning and moaning?

She want to show kindness, I think she is pampering and spoiling.

She and I. 

Opposite forces with unfillable gap?

Language of love?

Mine is act of services, her is touch and gifts. 

We cannot love each other? 

Just take off you and her. Stir fry them
Together. Where is the u and where is the her?

5 comments:

  1. Hi si
    no two human are the same. disagreements bound to exist even in the most loving couples.
    when all else fails, there are always the family service centre to approach.
    take care!

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  2. I think you misunderstood her. Just like she misunderstood you.

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  3. Aiyo,

    Paul and Yeh, I did not quarrel with my wife, at least not recently, but that doesn't mean we dun have disagreements.

    I am writing beyond context.

    Nonetheless, I appreciate the concern ...

    Thanks. We did have many many heated quarrels when we just married

    Even now, we would have it occasionally

    But we have learn to give each other more leeway

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    1. i have no quarrel with my husband at all. he always just ignore me if i quarrel with him:)
      一个巴掌拍不响. :(

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    2. whatever works, yeh =)

      I text my wife when we need to dicuss senstitive issues so that we see the content and not the tone and body language. LOL

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