But, while what is said is important, what the speaker felt is even more important.
While what the speaker felt is important, how you feel is more important.
While how you felt is important, what you do about it is more important.
While what u did is important, how convinced is your actions is right is more important.
While being right is important, how it achieved its intended consequences is more important.
While achieving is important, how it can be sustained achieving is goals in the long run is more important.
When you understand what is most important, you no longer get bothered by the words.
Who is bothering you? I, myself or me?
Not the above?
That's a lot of people bothering you man!