Sunday, January 15, 2023

随心笔:味道、仪式篇

味道篇

人生如味,酸甜苦辣咸。

所谓五味杂陈,多有贬义。

五位杂陈,才是圆满人生吧。

咖啡,就有苦,酸,甜。


味道过盛,对身体无益。

唯一例外,唯有苦涩。

然,我们都厌恶苦味。


身上散发的,都是酸味。

酸葡萄。

也许嘴上不说,你羡慕别人的还少了?

切莫让酸葡萄,变成了铜臭味。


五味,淡淡即可。

所谓甜丝丝,就是如此。


仪式篇

仪式很重要。

仪式,是一种提醒,让自己牢记,让别人莫忘。

祭奠仪式,就是莫忘祖先。


仪式,也是一种尊重,表示我们的重视。

毕业仪式,对那些勤奋学习,学有所成的学生表示重视,鼓励。

提醒其他人孜孜不倦地学习。


仪式,是一种提醒,一种重视,一种尊重。

莫忘了,仪式背后,提醒什么?重视什么?

莫要本末倒置了。


新年迎春,提醒什么?尊重什么?

谁的屋子布置华丽吗?

能吃上最美味奢华的大餐吗?

红包的行情很重要吗?


还是提醒我们破旧迎新,

记得布比受有福?

Monday, January 2, 2023

Surprises in 2022 at work, that i am thankful for

This post is perhaps 1 day late.

2022 has its ups and downs.

These are some surprises in work

1) Creating lessons that are fun, like "cooking" in class, and a Harry Potter escape room

2) Coaching a volleyball team. It is my good fortune this year to meet some of the most passionate players, who turns up without fail before 7 am in the morning to practise, and yet still clamor for more, doing it during recess. I obliged. It is hectic, tiring, and crazy, given i still have my teaching lessons and other duties.

Nonetheless, I will gladly do it again. 

When the NSG season is over, I am kind of sad to see them go. Most are P6 pupils who need to focus on preparing for their exams.

I am happy that most of the dilligent players all gotten DSA to schools of their choice. I told them they are good enough among their peers to apply for any schools, but they need to consider their academic competency too.

Till now, i remembered vividly how they are waiting for me during recess, sipping milo and waving frantically when i walk towards the court. What i didn't expect, is long after their competitions is over, so many of them still crowd around me to chat or simply to listen, when our lunch break coincided. Crowded by them as they simply sat around me is a 千金难买 feeling, especially when i feel 缘分已到尽头. During the holidays, they returned for training and helped me with training.

3) Unforgettable conversations. A parent whose child is not taught by me, (his boy with my team, i taught her elder daughter years ago) came to look for me, wanting to pass me some snacks from Overseas and thanking me for advice given when his son gotten his exam results.  She had wanted to meet another teacher to get some Certificate and i was playing volleyball with the old boys and girls. We ended up chattig for hours and she ordered Macdonald for the kids, when i said some of them didnt take lunch to play volleyball. We ended up having a picnic of sorts, chatting and eating.

One of my most quiet pupil in my graduating class actually told me a lot about her family and show me a lot of photos of her younger sister on the last day of school. I always said she is 冰山, as u can hardly get much response from her in class. She is not that cold afterall. Her mum texted me on the day of release of results, thanking me.

I was tasked to relief a new class after the year end exams. I am surprised that a pupil can earn 50k a year just by chatting to people on a platform with games. I am sure there are plenty of info she didnt tell me, and i told her my concerns about the job taking a nasty turn. Well, i am surprised with the amount of info she is willing to share with a "stranger". I heard enough to feel that she is street smart enough.

Well. I am thankful for these things at work. Happy 2023, have a great year at work too