Thursday, October 24, 2019

Random thoughts: A hot pan to another

Recently, I was considering a career move. Due to a recommendation by a friend, I explored a partnership in a potential venture. 

The discussion didn't end well. I gave the matter some.thoughts and decided to talk to more people.

After that, I realised I might be jumping from one hot pan to another. 

Made me feel better although nothing much has changed. I do not think I will continue that venture. 

Another blogger made me realise there is a big difference being wanting to start your own business and wanting to be self-employed.

So... I decided to be manwhore one more time. Since now I have a different boss and going to have a different job scope next year.

I given up my chance for any future promotion or pay increment with this lateral movement to another job scope. But I am very happy. 

Today, I finished my last appraisal work. No more. While I know there will be plenty of challenges in the future, I know I will be more at peace. Better to do what I am good at then trying to convince myself that I can do something I no longer believed in well

I really like the 3 questions Jack Ma asked himself. What do I have? What can I do to what I have? What I am willing to give up for what I have. 

I know what I am not willing to give up just yet. So is time to shut down and be at peace.

I might still keep that option open and look it for various angles. 

Here is a picture I find really interesting.

The grass is always greener at the other side; there is always a more shitty job. 


  1. sillyinvestor,

    You can't put a $ value on peace of mind ;)

    You know your chinese history better than me. Sometimes we need to wait.

    Many protagonists have to endure years of waiting before 天时, 地利, 人和 happen ;)

    I had to endure my lost decade of changing jobs in my 20s until I found the right fit at age 30...

    Focus on knowing what you really want.

    Then you won't be led "astray" by other people's well intentioned recommendations.

    For eg, if you never wanted to be principal, if not careful, you'll let others promote you to your next level of unhappiness :(

    P.S. Nice to know there's another manwhore in the community ;)

    But stay away from Queenstown. That's my turf. Don't steal customers!

  2. Yup. Wait and see ba.
    In the mean time, take incremental preparation, learning and experimenting

    now only got some ground advantage, 地理。 哈哈


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